Philosophy

 

My personal philosophy as a healer is a bit different than others.  I'm very live and let live, however when it comes to helping others I say, "DO IT!  Just be smart about it."  What I mean by that is, we need to realize where we can really make change and where we cannot, and where we cannot, reroute it to something we can do. I am very against internet bullying, virtue signaling, and canceling.  These movements are facilitated by people who have a lot of growth and healing to do themselves, but would rather throw rocks at someone else. 

I'm not a fear based healer.  I don't give you a bunch of things to worry about and then charge you a ridiculous amount of money to fix those things.  Beware of these poeple!  They are not kind and only out to make a buck.  I'm here to help you grow and find joy in your personal space, and hopefully spread that outwards to others. 

I won't tell everyone that they can be perfectly fixed in their lives.  This isn't negative!  Perfection is something we shouldn't strive for.  We should strive for personal growth and working towards fixing problems one at a time.  It's not possible for humans to be perfect.  We are all unique and imperfect in our own ways and the only thing that matters is that we beat our own personal record each time.  

I believe that working on ourselves and finding joy is the true key to fixing the world.  While I don't think we can 'love and light' it all away, ultimately raising up ourselves helps to raise up others.  This means we still have to fix our issues, and not spiritually bypass things, but find the joy in each and every step up the mountain.  Some days it will be difficult and we will just need to cry it out and feel the pain, but the important thing is to know we won't stay there forever.  

My healing practice is a safe space for everyone.  I will keep everything confidential, and everyone is welcome.  We are all different and we all have our own path, and that is not a bad thing.  Everyone comes from different types of political and religious backgrounds, personal beliefs, sexual preferences, and holds various opinions on various things.  When I say I'm open, I don't mean I'm only open if you agree with me, I'm open to people who believe differently.  I only ask that you do not impose or force beliefs onto me as I will never impose my beliefs onto you.  The whole point of healing is to live and let live!

I will not tolerate any discrimination on my page via comments or messages.  I will delete and block.  I am not one to leave them hanging around as they hold energy, and no one will get the priveledge to impose that on others.   This doesn't mean I am not open to a mature discussion if someone disagrees with me.  We all have that right.  However there are a lot of trolls and energy vampires out there looking for a snack.  This isn't the place. 

Lastly, if I feel you need to be referred to a psychologist or psychiatrist, I will.  I am a healer and life coach, and this is a bit different.  I believe in the spiritual side and the modern side both have their places in society.  I know of some good places to refer people if they need this kind of assistance.  You are my top priority!